
We have a few reasons:
- At first, we weren't sure what we would pick, so we didn't want to announce a name only to change it and then change it back again.
- Everyone may know someone with his name that would make them not like it, so there's no way we could satisfy everyone. You know, we all had that fat kid in our 2nd grade class who picked his nose and was a nerd. Well... mine might have been named Adam, and Mike's could have been Steve and my mom's could have been Timmy.... If we filtered out all of those, we might never come up with a name!
- We wanted to pick the name that we both loved and we felt would be a good fit, without endless opinions. Most people are quick to give their opinion when they think they might be able to change your mind, but (at least we're hoping) once it's final, no one will tell us if they don't like it... it'll already be settled and they'll just grow to love it.
- Surprises are fun... and there just aren't that many opportunities to have them!
Lady: What are you going to name him?
Me: We're deciding between Brutus and Horace. (obviously these are not true options)
Lady: Oh, I definitely like Horace much better. Yeah, Horace is better.
Me: Well, we'll see...
(And as we left, we said to each other: "did we ask her opinion? we actually didn't really want her opinion... and frankly we were leaning toward the "brutus" option, not "horace" so now we just have someone telling us they aren't crazy about our choice, yeah, we're definitely glad we're keeping it a surprise.")


